Leisure:
What do you do in your leisure time? Is your leisure fulfilling or an escape?
Computers and technology, cars and sport, television & games, gambling, alcohol, ...
Are they ways of relaxing and letting go or addictions? When and why?
Competition
Even if we don't follow a sport team we often seem to have 'a cause' to identify with and defend. Religious, political, social, beliefs, .... it doesn't matter which, but something.
We want to be aligned with the 'right' or winning group and will take out our swords to defend it. What are we really competing for?